How to make better decisions
Expert sources (3)
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Clear Thinking w/ Shane Parrish (TIP580)
Shane ParrishAuthor and investor - 2
How To Outsmart Negative Thoughts Once And For All
Leila HormoziEntrepreneur - 3
How To BREAK BAD HABITS & Get 1% Better EVERYDAY | Charles Duhigg
Charles DuhiggJournalist and author
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Summary
Making better decisions means judging both the outcome and the process you used, not just the result. Manage your emotions, aim for the best outcome rather than protecting your ego, treat urgency as an emotional illusion, and slow big choices down with habits like a decision journal and trusted perspectives.
Shane Parrish's point is that better decisions come from judging both the outcome and the process you used to get there, not just the final result 1. Managing your emotions matters too: choices made while hungry, angry, lonely, tired, or driven by ego tend to be reactionary, so aim for the best outcome rather than being right. Leila Hormozi adds that urgency is often an emotional illusion, and recognizing that helps you avoid rushed, flawed choices 2.
To think more clearly under pressure, build habits and routines, like a decision journal or trip wires, that force you to slow down and weigh more than one angle 1 3. Charles Duhigg points to talking a big choice through with someone you trust, and it helps to gain distance by asking what a trusted friend, or an imagined board of directors, would do 3.
Keep a simple decision journal: note the situation, what you expected to happen and why, and the actual outcome, then review it later to calibrate how you decide over time.